2008年9月4日 星期四

5 Ideas For Keeping Kids Motivated

  1. Encourage academic and career goals: Talk to your child about his favorite subjects and help him make the school-career connection early on. Plan family activities that connect with what he is studying in school to emphasize real-world connections to academics.

  2. Set high expectations: Show your child that hard work is rewarded; kids who believe effort and achievement go together perform better academically. Set up a contract with him to complete his schoolwork before going out or turning on the TV.

  3. Praise successes: Positive reinforcement builds confidence and academic interest.

  4. Beware of put-downs: Criticism can damage your pre-teen's fragile self-esteem and make her less willing to challenge herself.

  5. Encourage kids to write whenever possible: Writing letters, e-mails, and thank you notes will help develop crucial writing skills.
如何激發學齡小朋友學習的樂趣 ? 您的角色不容忽視.
  • 從小建立願景目標,將學校的作業融入於家庭的休閒活動,藉由全家的參與可以激發小朋友的動力.
  • 設定較高的期望值,讓小朋友知道經由辛苦付出後的果實才更碩美.下課後,先完成功課才能去玩及看電視,從小培養對工作的輕重緩急觀念.
  • 從小養成正面樂觀的態度,將有助於小朋友自信心及激發學習興趣.
  • 避免嚴厲的責備,同樣的一句話可以用較柔性的語氣來傳達,小朋友的信心及存在的價值,常常決定於您的態度及言論. 
  • 鼓勵您的小朋友經常提筆寫,這樣可以培養寫作技巧並有效抒發情感,寫感謝信.e-mail. 日記.平日感想,留言,等等都是很好的方式.
其它還有很多的方式.........歡迎您能提供您的建議,讓我們的教養之路可以更順利圓滿.




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匿名 提到...

Great!